I've come across very interesting people since I joined this site, (which makes me wonder if it's my profile or sheer luck), and I'm starting to question if anyone in my age group actually wants a real relationship or friendship, or if it's just random people looking for random hook-ups. I've met some friends who are having luck, (you know who you are even if you don't think I know who you are), and I see them flirting on the blogs, (you people aren't as sly as you think you are). Is it just because I'm younger and supposed to be meeting people through real life experiences right now? Well, most of the guys I know see me as one of the guys, or worse as a sister figure, and that's not what I'm looking for. I know I'm just rambling, but I can only take so many creeps (both on-line and in person) before I start to wonder if I'm a magnet for them somehow, if it's me. Maybe it's because I'm young (obviously), inexperienced (or only bad experiences), and naive (I know I am), but does that mean that every sicko, creep and pervert gets to flock my way? Okay, I know I said in another blog I wasn't jaded, maybe there's a touch of that there :). I'm just tired of getting my hopes up to get them crushed again. That is all. -Erin
I've come across very interesting people since I joined this site, (which makes me wonder if it's my profile or sheer luck), and I'm starting to question if anyone in my age group actually wants a real relationship or friendship, or if it's just random people looking for random hook-ups. I've met some friends who are having luck, (you know who you are even if you don't think I know who you are), and I see them flirting on the blogs, (you people aren't as sly as you think you are). Is it just because I'm younger and supposed to be meeting people through real life experiences right now? Well, most of the guys I know see me as one of the guys, or worse as a sister figure, and that's not what I'm looking for. I know I'm just rambling, but I can only take so many creeps (both on-line and in person) before I start to wonder if I'm a magnet for them somehow, if it's me. Maybe it's because I'm young (obviously), inexperienced (or only bad experiences), and naive (I know I am), but does that mean that every sicko, creep and pervert gets to flock my way? Okay, I know I said in another blog I wasn't jaded, maybe there's a touch of that there :). I'm just tired of getting my hopes up to get them crushed again. That is all. -Erin
I'm pretty young too. And actually, joining sites and actually talking to other people whether friendship or relationship potential, I've noticed that no one wants a REAL relationship either.
They either want a friends with benefits, just a hook up, a random person to be with because they're lonely..
But when you find someone that'll change your mind, it so feels worth it! I mean, I haven't found one yet and I think the thing for me is DISTANCE. The good guys always seem to live so far away! =/
Age isn't much of a factor, I don't believe. I just think it's not time for you to find anything serious and you're supposed to learn something through the wait.
It may seem like forever, but when you're not looking and or not getting your hopes up too much, you seem to find some decent people to talk to or even have a relationship with.
Again, good luck!
How old are you?
I'm pretty young too. And actually, joining sites and actually talking to other people whether friendship or relationship potential, I've noticed that no one wants a REAL relationship either.
They either want a friends with benefits, just a hook up, a random person to be with because they're lonely..
But when you find someone that'll change your mind, it so feels worth it! I mean, I haven't found one yet and I think the thing for me is DISTANCE. The good guys always seem to live so far away! =/
Age isn't much of a factor, I don't believe. I just think it's not time for you to find anything serious and you're supposed to learn something through the wait.
It may seem like forever, but when you're not looking and or not getting your hopes up too much, you seem to find some decent people to talk to or even have a relationship with.
It's not an age thing. It's the level of maturity that people come to this with. We can't expect all men to think the way we do. I would think that most of the people on this site do NOT think they are actually going to find someone here. I know I don't, but if I do, well good then! This is only one of MANY avenues we can take to try to meet someone.
I think that MOST of the time in life, we meet that potential signifigant other while just going through the motions of life. We meet them on our way somewhere else--by accident. We jsut have to be patient. And always take the time to look around. If you only focus on one place to meet men, you are missing out on SO much more!--True
It's not an age thing. It's the level of maturity that people come to this with. We can't expect all men to think the way we do. I would think that most of the people on this site do NOT think they are actually going to find someone here. I know I don't, but if I do, well good then! This is only one of MANY avenues we can take to try to meet someone.
I think that MOST of the time in life, we meet that potential signifigant other while just going through the motions of life. We meet them on our way somewhere else--by accident. We jsut have to be patient. And always take the time to look around. If you only focus on one place to meet men, you are missing out on SO much more!--True
Come on girl... you know we're all in the same boat. Sometimes I feel like there are 10 men for each women around me. The only difference age does is that at my age I don't expect it anymore. If it happens great... if is doesn't.... I won't shoot myself. Basically, I've learned to do without... If I hadn't, I would be with the last 29 years old guy that sent me a wink and would be used as his tool for physical release. I'm looking for a guy that wants to share emotions and affection. I haven't found one yet. Ok... let's say I'm a bit bitter tonight.
Come on girl... you know we're all in the same boat. Sometimes I feel like there are 10 men for each women around me. The only difference age does is that at my age I don't expect it anymore. If it happens great... if is doesn't.... I won't shoot myself. Basically, I've learned to do without... If I hadn't, I would be with the last 29 years old guy that sent me a wink and would be used as his tool for physical release. I'm looking for a guy that wants to share emotions and affection. I haven't found one yet. Ok... let's say I'm a bit bitter tonight.
It's not you or your age Math. I am at the other end of the age spectrum and experiencing much of the same issues. Hang in there girl speaking from past experiences this too will pass.
It's not you or your age Math. I am at the other end of the age spectrum and experiencing much of the same issues. Hang in there girl speaking from past experiences this too will pass.
